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Zee Gimon

I am Zee. I call myself the Observer because that's what I find myself doing most of the time - observe life and people around me. My blog is a Pensieve, similar to that of Dumbledore, used to keep the thoughts and random ideas that visit my brain.

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  • First, let me apologize on behalf of every gentleman in the world for our uncouth brethren. Seriously, those guys are either joking, or a little short of the mark of manhood.

    I have known enough "Plain Janes" who turned out to be very pretty to know that the saying "beauty is only skin deep" is in gross error. It would be better to say that beauty has little to do with the skin. What I find beautiful and important is the Fruit of the Spirit. A godly woman is the most beautiful creature in the world (I am not including spirits, simply because I don't feel as expert in that area, and God tops even the most godly woman by default/definition/the very nature of godliness). A kind, gentle, loving woman who is patient with me is infinitely more beautiful than one who is abrasive. After all, Solomon told us "It is better to live on the corner of a roof, then with a contentious woman."

    There are a couple of quotes that I have always liked related to this though I have no idea who originally said them: "A woman's heart should be so lost in Jesus that a man should have to seek him to find it." and the second is something like "A woman's theology is of utmost importance because when her husband is broken, he needs her for support."

    One more quote that I heard last night on the subject of chivalry comes in the form of dialog in the movie "Defiance":
    Belle: "Why is there a rule that women do not get guns?"
    Zus: "Because there are not enough for the men."
    Belle: "Women should have guns too."
    Zus: "Why do the women need guns?"
    Belle: "For protection,"
    Zus: "That is what the men are for."

    • I like that last quote – it is so nice when girls don't have to think about the means to protect ourselves and yet feel safe. It's quite freeing – since we were not meant to be the physically strong ones. I feel sort of sorry for feminist girls who want to be strong and stronger than others… Mostly that comes from being not protected earlier in life…

      The quote about woman's theology is a wise one too. Man and woman are created to be together.
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  • 🙂 You and Simeon are a beautiful couple.

    Looking for picture-perfect is indeed dumb – it's easy to spend entire life looking for that "one" – when in reality you'll miss your opportunities of happiness. And people change – a lot 🙂
    My recent post Gods sometimes-weird Love

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